We grow up thinking that everything we do and the things we experience matter but do they really? Truthfully, no most of it does not matter at all.
Most of the things we stress over and obsess over are complete utter bullshit. It might take a long time to realize that but once you do life will become much easier. We have so much more than other people, obsessing over the minor things we have to face is not going to do anyone any good.
We are not here to waste our time, we are here to live our lives to the fullest. Needlessly suffering is not a part of the plan and it should not become reality for any of us. We all go through hardships. You might have lost your job, but you can and will get another one eventually. Things will always get better no matter what.
Most things don’t matter because they aren’t serving any kind of purpose. We are merely wasting our energy on things that aren’t going to make any kind of real difference in our lives. If you cannot control it you should never give it power.
This is something I live by. Only let yourself put energy into things you can control. If you don’t have a chance in hell at changing the outcome of something is there really any sense in spending all your time worrying about it? NO!
There is no point in complaining about the things going on in your life because once again if you cannot change them they do not deserve your energy. When we spend all our time whining and stressing we are not living our lives to the fullest. We are letting ourselves be shoved into a box and thrown out. We are squashing out potential.
If you are feeling down and out or stuck in something you cannot do shit about build a bridge and get over it. We create our own happiness. If you want to be more happy in life (mental health aside if there is a real problem please seek the help that you need) go out and get that happiness. The things you want to do and be are possible, most shit does not matter.