The past few years have been rough for most of us. While some signs have learned their lessons others have not even begun.

Growth and learning are both things we tend to think of as the same but they aren’t always the same. From 2016 to 2018 we should have learned quite a few life lessons and grown a lot as people, but have we? Below I am going to go over the things each sign should have uncovered within the past couple of years. If you have not yet come to terms with these things, you need to do so before 2019. Moving forward is a lot easier when you are where you need to be.


From 2016-2018 you should have figured out where you stood within the lives of those around you. This time should have truly put things into perspective for you. You were supposed to learn that you are not what this world wants you to be and that is alright! As long as you are the person that you want to be.


From 2016-2018 you really should have decided what you wanted to do in life. You should have made some very big decisions and cut ties with some very toxic people. Moving forward was hard and will continue to be hard but you can do it.


From 2016-2018 you were being pushed to find something that you believed in and whether or not you found it is still unclear. With that being said, as time passes things will begin making more sense. Now is the time that you need to be thinking about what you want to do with yourself and who you want to be. While this is a hard question to ask yourself, it is one that will benefit you greatly in the long run.


From 2016-2018 you should have spent some time reflecting on the mistakes of your past, so you did not make them again. You have either cut ties or intend to cut ties with some friends that are not really friends at all. This past couple of years have made you question yourself a lot but not always in a bad way.


From 2016-2018 you should have learned that not all who seem to have ill intentions do. You should have opened up more, working to really trust the people around you. In the past, you have been far too guarded for your own good.


From 2016-2018 you should have learned that making the hard decisions are worth it in the end. You will very soon understand the meaning of all the things you have been through. While taking things to this level was hard, it will be worth it.


From 2016-2018 you will learn that trying new things is not as scary as it seems. If you have not learned this yet you are starting to. This is something that takes baby steps and can really be a long process. Growth in this way will really help you become who you are meant to be.


From 2016-2018 you will have realized that sometimes moving on is the best thing for you. You have to do what is right for you and you should not let other people hold you back. Doing what you feel is right will make a huge difference in your life.


From 2016-2018 you will have learned that it is alright to stay in one place. You will have found someone that makes that wanderlust leave your mind. This is something you should never give up.


From 2016-2018 you were supposed to learn that being stubborn wasn’t getting you anywhere. You should have figured out that things are not always what they seem. While you want to take chances and move forward, sometimes really thinking before acting will do you some good. Don’t be afraid to second guess yourself.


From 2016-2018 you were supposed to realize that diving into the unknown is not going to be as scary as you think it will. You should have begun self-exploration on a wide scale. Finding yourself is not as hard as you think.


From 2016-2018 you should have realized that putting yourself out there sometimes does get you the results that you want. You should have figured out that being yourself and showing others your true colors is not going to hurt you. You will learn how to trust in time.

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