Happiness is something everyone wants but few truly have. It is something so simple and yet so complicated, why is this?
No matter what we go through or where we end up in life we all want to be happy. Happiness is not something that we find and I think that is something many people need to come to terms with. It is something you create within and looking for it externally won’t ever do anyone any good.
The secrets to happiness are not as hidden as you might think. Even on your worst days, you can create happiness, all you have to do is know how. Below I am going to go over several things everyone should realize in life and only through this can you truly begin to manifest the happiness you have been seeking. If you do not accept and understand these things, you will get nowhere.
The 7 Secrets to Happiness
1. You must stop comparing yourself and your life to others and theirs.
You cannot keep comparing yourself to everyone around you. You are YOU not them, live your life. You cannot change bodies or lives with someone else, stop trying to.
2. Stop striving to be ‘perfect,’ perfect does not exist.
You have to give up on the idea of being perfect. No one in this world is perfect. Perfection does not exist.
3. Quit complaining, it isn’t doing any good.
You have got to stop complaining. Complaining doesn’t help anyone, all it does is create more frustration within your life. Stop feeding into the problem.
You cannot find happiness by looking for it you have to create it yourself. If you do not create it on your own it is not true happiness. This is something most people struggle with.
5. No one is going to come save you from yourself.
Stop waiting around for a knight in shining armor, no one is going to come and sweep you off of your feet. You are the only person who can save you. Stop acting like someone else is going to come in and solve all of your problems, it does not work that way.
6. If you don’t make the changes you need to make nothing will ever happen for you.
If you do not start making the changes you need to make they will never happen. You have to be more positive and help yourself grow, if you don’t you won’t ever get out of that rut you’re in. Stop talking about it and go out and do it.
7. You are not the only person struggling, accept it.
Stop acting like you are the only person in the world going through something. You never know what other people are feeling or dealing with. Be thankful for all that you have.
Being happy is not as hard as you might think it is. If you are grateful and working towards something happiness will radiate from within your being. Don’t settle for being so closed off and afraid, live a truly beautiful thing and you should be making the most of it.