While many women can handle more than most, there is no denying a woman who is set in her decision. And when it comes to relationships, this is even more true.
When she has finally had enough, she is going to walk away never to be heard from again. She is going to end things right then and there. You won’t be able to convince her to come back once all is said and done.
She doesn’t have any reason to stay, because her mind and heart are no longer in the same place and she won’t let anyone play with her emotions on that level. If you have not made things right time after time and have squashed who she is without even apologizing she won’t let you continue doing so. She will build up the nerve to walk out the door and never turn around.
You see, when you’ve made your way out in the past you have always turned and looked back in the door as it was closing. She is not the kind to do that. She will continue walking and never stop to figure out whether the door locked behind her or not. She has her own needs and she will not always be willing to put yours before them. You need to be aware of this before things get to the point of no return.
It might seem like she is always there and like she will always come back but when she really means she’s leaving she is gone for good. She will get tired of being so exhausted emotionally and insecure. She needs to be able to feel comfortable with the person that she is with or with those she allows closest to her. She might have thought in the beginning that you would change and maybe that’s why she kept sticking around even when you had let her down time and time again.
Regardless of her reasons for sticking by you, she will eventually realize that nothing good will come from the two of you being around one another. She will realize that her best efforts are good enough but were being wasted on you. She will finally stand up for herself and let go of everything that brought the two of you together in the first place.
She will allow herself the fresh start that she needs and reap all the benefits that come with it. Women are not doormats and should be treated with respect. Far too often we forget how little effort we put into things. We let them give us their all and without thinking too much about it we expect more and more all the while refusing to bring anything to the table.
If you don’t catch this before it is too late she will leave you and she will move on. That being said, you will gain something from her disappearance. You will learn how fucked up you made things and how clearly simple it was for you to have fixed things long ago. You will be kicking yourself in the ass for many months to come while you make changes to yourself and the way you treat other people.
If you are in a relationship with a woman that you don’t appreciate enough shame on you. Treat her like the goddess that she is and make sure she knows how important she is to you. Don’t let her walk away without making an effort to convince her to stay. Do better and be better.
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