Don’t settle in life or in love. Just because you care for someone does not mean they’re the right person for you.
If the person you care about the most doesn’t adore you as much as you adore him/her stop wasting your time. Life is too short to remain stuck with someone who refuses to see your worth. Through getting to know yourself better you can attract someone into your life that will treat you properly and show you the adoration you deserve.
Below I am going to go over some things we may forget to do, but should always try to keep in mind. These things as time passes will help you attract someone into your life who adores you just as much as you adore them. Sure, it might take time but it’s worth it in ways you will soon understand.
8 Things That Will Help You Attract Someone Who Adores You:
1. Be humble and show your compassionate side.
Stop pretending that you don’t care about other people. You care a lot and it’s time to show it. The more others see this side of you the more they will respect you.
2. Don’t let your own needs fall behind those of others.
Your needs matter and you should remember that. You cannot do anything for anyone if you’re not taking care of yourself. Sure, you might not think much about what you want or need in life but at the end of the day, things have to be done.
3. Be yourself, above all else.
Stop pretending to be someone you’re not. How do you expect someone else to adore you when you don’t even adore yourself. We attract what we put forth and you’re lacking if you’re just putting on a fake smile.
4. Let your sense of humor shine.
Everyone wants to see the side of you that lets loose sometimes. Don’t hide this part of you away from the world. Let people see you as you truly are.
5. Let go of the past.
The past is not something you can change and because of that, you must let go of it. Holding onto it will only make you feel worse as time passes. Moving on cannot be done if you’re bringing so much baggage.
6. Do your best to be open and honest with others.
Stop being so withholding. Share the things that need to be shared. Honesty is something a lot of people value.
7. Look for friendship first.
Instead of being on the lookout for a new lover try to find friends before anything else. Sometimes those friendships progress into something more and sometimes they do not. Nothing wrong with making friends.
8. Keep an open mind about everything.
The more open-minded you are the better. Accept people from all walks of life. We can all learn a lot about life and love from others.