When it comes to being a parent there is no guide book that works for each and every child. All kids are different and some are more difficult than others.
We all make mistakes and even as parents, it’s not avoidable. While what drives a person to become a sociopath is a bit complicated and not something we have pinned down completely, there are some mistakes we can make when raising our kids that can contribute to their transformation big time. While children do not usually become identified as sociopaths until at least an adolescent age, they can develop problems and traits when they are very young that lead to something quite damaging.
Below I am going to go over some of the more commonly made mistakes that can contribute to the kinds of traits and behaviors that lead to sociopathy and other things of the sort as a child grows. Are any of these mistakes things you’ve been making or seeing someone else make? Perhaps changes are needed before it’s too late.
8 Parenting Mistakes That can Create A ‘Child Sociopath’:
1. Not forcing them to figure things out for themselves.
Your children have to be able to think for themselves. The more that you shelter them the less ‘real’ they will become. They need to be able to think things through and figure out how to move forward rather than relying on you for everything.
2. Allowing them to react in cruel ways to things in their lives.
Your children when reacting cruelly need to be checked. You need to remind them to be compassionate and care for the people around them. When they do something that hurts someone else, they need to know how they’re hurting that person and what the problem is.
3. Allowing them to get away with lying.
Lying should never be tolerated. Your children need to know that they need to be open and honest, especially with you. Do not let them tell a fib and get away with it, keep them owning up to their actions and if they do something they shouldn’t, it needs to be addressed.
4. Not setting limits on what they do or how they act.
Your kids need limits, limits make them more responsible and teach them how to act in general. Setting limits needs to be realistic and firm. Don’t budge on this kind of thing, ever.
5. Making them think they are better than everyone else.
You might want your children to feel special and there is nothing wrong with that but teaching them that they are better than other people is not a good idea. We are all equal in this world and no one is more important than anyone else. Just because your child is your child doesn’t mean he or she should be allowed to run rampant.
6. Not making them own up to their mistakes.
Your children are going to make mistakes, and they need to be accountable for their own actions. As time passes teaching them to make sure they are clear and direct in apologizing once they’ve done something wrong is important. We are all human, and we all have to experience this kind of thing in life.
7. Not taking the time to instill proper values in their lives.
We all need proper values and responsibilities. If you do not teach your children about compassion and kindness, will someone else? They need to see these things coming from you, the person they look up to the most.
8. Refusing to make consequences clear.
Sociopaths don’t ever face the consequences to anything they do. They don’t care how things affect the people around them or what problems they face because of the things they do. If you don’t set clear consequences while they’re growing up, they won’t catch on as adults.