We all have that one friend that we can tell anything to and trust them with it. However, no matter how trustworthy the person is, you should never share these things with them or anyone else.
We can get really close to our friends and even family. Humans naturally build trust with other individuals, and we all have the urge to share the things about our lives and thoughts with other people too. It is normal and healthy to share what has been going on in your head with other people, but there are some things that only you should know. It’s not that you have to keep these things a secret, but you just don’t need to share these things with other people. Your personal life is your personal life for a reason. Don’t make it someone else’s business when it shouldn’t involve other people.
You are much better off keeping your goals to yourself. This is because in the future they might be part of something you need to change. Additionally, our goals are forever changing and adapting as we go throughout life and you don’t want other people holding you to expectations that are unachievable.
Your Personal Life
One of the things that I personally hate the most is being involved in other people’s personal life. I cannot stand when my friends involve me in their drama that I have no business being in. Things of other people’s personal life begin stressing you out and you get too emotionally involved in each other’s lives. It causes additional problems because it forms a habit.
Everyone has family issues and we are basically all formed on the way we were raised. It has a heavy influence on the way we are today, and you don’t want other people taking advantage of that. Plus, when people know your personal drama they tend to just you based off of it.
Everyone should perform good deeds throughout the day. The world will change with one random act of kindness at a time. However, when we share the good things we do with other people it might make them feel compelled to do something better. It comes to a point where people are constantly trying to outdo you and they think you are bragging about yourself.
Just like the good deeds, if you ever talk about your materialistic objects it makes people think you are bragging about yourself. It causes other people to be more inclined to brag about their belongings to you, and it isn’t a healthy relationship trait to have.
You should always keep your finances and money related subjects to yourself. Other people might use your finances to assure themselves that you can give to them. People might even go to lengths of expecting it if they know you have it. Any extra money should always be saved, don’t forget that.