We all have an ideal concept within our minds of what our soulmate will be like and usually, this concept only covers the various aspects of love and romance. However, we also have a tantric soulmate, and the two are not always the same.
Our soulmates, twin flames, or soul mirrors are the people we are supposed to spend our lives with, our tantric soulmates could last only as long as our encounters.
And while sometimes these twists can last for years, they sometimes only last for hours. Sadly, the latter is often the case. But, if you have met someone, and they are still in your life, and the traits and situations below match your bond, it’s likely you are with them now. And what you choose to do with this information is entirely up to you.
It Feels Natural.
Unlike a relationship where things may be awkward, leaving you feeling pressured to make the right move at the right time, a tantric soulmate knows exactly when to make the move. And not only that, but they know exactly how to put you in the right mood.
You have the same kinks.
While you may have butted heads with lovers in the past who couldn’t quite understand the things that turn you on, your tantric soulmate will understand entirely.
They can sense when you are turned on, just by looking at you.
Instead of having to ask, they just know.
You don’t stress about whether or not it will happen.
In a relationship, you may begin to worry when your partner just doesn’t want it, but with this person, you won’t, because you will know it isn’t because they don’t find you attractive.
You don’t feel pressured to make the relationship anything more than what it is.
The physical side is great, and neither of you are really looking for more. If it happens, it happens, but if it doesn’t, at least you have the physical to look back on.
You have relations in all circumstances- when you are stressed, when you are on your period, when you are messy, it doesn’t matter!
There is no need to fantasize about others – because your relationship is purely about the physical!
While real couples may get bored and think about other people during their encounters, this person is in your life purely because you are attracted to them physically. You could have someone else, but you chose this person.
You can let your freak flag fly.
You don’t have to be inhibited about your physical kinks – every fantasy is on the table for exploration, and there are no judgments.
You are physically in-sync, in every possible way.
From the timing to your moods – it just all clicks….at least physically.
You are both always game for a sexy time.
There never comes a time in your relationship where relations are offered and on the table and one of you turns the other down. You are both always down, no excuses, and no questions.
It isn’t always about the physical.
Unlike friends with benefits relationship, you have an emotional bond with your physical soulmate.
They can breathe just the right way in your direction, and it turns you on to your core.
This person doesn’t even have to try to turn you on, and they somehow always turn you on to no end – think goosebumps & shivering beneath their touch!
You are comfortable with them.
Regardless of whether you are fully made up, showered and dressed to impress you are comfortable around them. Anxiety flew out the window from the time your clothes hit the floor – and it has stayed that way throughout.
Others have witnessed the sparks.
While the sparks between you are obvious for the two of you – it isn’t just you that senses this chemistry. Other people have commented on your sparks and even pushed for you two to be more than just friends. (If you aren’t moving towards that level already.)
They are selfless during the physical.
While some will rush to the finish, leaving you feeling deprived – this person will remember to consider your needs and will make sure you get exactly what you came for.
You can telepathically communicate your needs to one another.
Even when you are in public, you can just tell when they look at you with physical desire. And instantly, you know, it’s time to either sneak off or go home. (Because you can’t wait to jump their bones!)
They don’t screw around with other people, and if they do – they are open about it & safe.
They don’t risk your physical health, and really, if they are truly your physical counterpart, they don’t care to physically engage with other people as they are content with just you.
You do it all- together.
From your hands to your mouths, and maybe even toys (if that’s your thing)- you love exploring each other!
There is no awkwardness.
You don’t feel the urge to grab a towel or turn off the lights. You are open with each other, entirely.
The kisses you give each other are an amazing….no matter where they land.
Whether they are kissing your thighs, your feet, or your lips directly – each kiss is beautiful and meaningful on a deep level.
When you say no to something physical, or ask them to slow down, or speed up – they do so without hesitation.
Not only do they know your limits and desires, but they also respect them.
No matter what your relationship is when it comes down to it – you are the only one on the other person’s mind.
Perhaps you are just engaging physically for now (and that’s totally okay), or maybe you are taking things slowly to see where it goes – regardless, you can’t get them off your mind and vice versa.
Your experiences are out of this world.
You are passionately in-sync and feel every breath they take while you are joined as one. You aren’t concerned with anything else but the blissful encounter itself, and because of that – you could almost consider your love to be a spiritual experience.