Sometimes we feel like we need to fight for the person we are with or want to be with even when they keep doing shitty things to us. We all make mistakes but you shouldn’t be putting your own well-being at risk because the person you are dating refuses to make you a priority in his life.

Yes, you will want to fight for him even if he has wronged you time and time again, but there has to come a point where you realize he is not going to change. You cannot fix him and if he does it more than once he will do it again. You deserve someone that will be there for you in all the best ways.

17 Reasons Why You Should Not Be Fighting For Him:

1. He is wasting your time.

Sometimes there comes a point where we realize that the person we love is just leading us on. He might be wasting your time without you even noticing. Don’t let him play you like that.

2. He doesn’t really care about you.

There comes a point where you realize that he just doesn’t care about you like he says he does. His actions and his words don’t match up. He might say one thing, but that doesn’t mean he is telling you the truth.

3. You don’t need this stress.

If he is stressing you out and making you feel bad you don’t need to keep him around. You deserve someone in your life that will be there for you through the things this life pushes your way. You don’t need someone that is going to cause more problems than they are worth.

4. You’re neglecting those who really care.

If you are putting this person who keeps hurting you before those who don’t ever hurt you, you are in the wrong. Take a look at the people surrounding you and see where you stand. What is going on within your life?

5. Your trust is broken.

When he breaks your trust time and time again eventually he won’t be able to get it back. The more you give the less he is going to make an effort. He doesn’t care if you trust him or not.

6. You just aren’t meant to be and you need to accept that.

You just have to come to terms at some point that you both are not meant to be together. Just because you have made it work for this long doesn’t mean you are both meant to be. People change and sometimes move apart; this is just part of life.

7. It is too late to fix things.

Within the relationship, at one point or another, you will realize that things cannot be fixed. When things cannot be fixed there is no other option but to move on. This is just how love ends up sometimes and even though it hurts it is a learning experience.

8. You’re making yourself look much weaker than you are.

When he hurts you time and time again and you keep taking him back you are making yourself look bad. Do not be a doormat, because you are so much stronger than that.

9. You just can’t fix him, he has to fix himself.

You cannot fix other people, they have to make the choice to change by themselves. If you keep trying, eventually you will see that you have wasted all this time.

10. Sometimes people are just too toxic for one another.

Sometimes we are just too toxic for one another. It might not be your fault or his fault. Relationships don’t always work the ways we want them to.

11. You’re just causing yourself unnecessary pain.

Being with him is only causing you more pain than he is worth. You deserve so much more than you are being given.

12. There is too much going on for you to be able to deal with.

There is too much going on in your life. This is just throwing everything over the edge. Don’t force yourself to deal when you don’t have to.

13. You need to find yourself again.

If you need to take a moment to find yourself do it. You don’t have to be in a relationship. You can be happy and single if that is what you really want in this life at this time.

14. You don’t feel the same way you did before.

Sometimes after someone betrays us, our perspective on them changes. We no longer feel the same way. There is nothing wrong with moving on.

15. You spend more time upset than you spend happy.

If you are spending all your time down in the dumps, it is basically like you are single already. Don’t let him pull you down and hurt your heart. Stand up for yourself and move on.

16. You no longer respect him.

When he does something that makes you lose respect for him there is no going back. That is not something he can win over or build back up. Once it is gone, it is gone.

17. You are being held back and you can feel it.

If he is holding you back from your life and your dreams move on. You deserve to have and do all that you want to in this life. Do not let anyone squash you in any way.

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