In a relationship is one person is putting in all the effort and the other is not doing anything you don’t have much of a relationship at all. Sometimes those that we thought cared for us end up to be people we should have avoided, it is a sad reality.
If you are in a relationship with someone who refuses to help work through your problems you need to kick him or her to the curb. You deserve someone who will be there for you when you need them, not someone who runs and hides when it matters most. If your partner is doing the following they are ready to move on, cut ties and let them go!
14 Signs Your Partner is Ready To Move On:
They only think of themselves and are forever forgetting your needs. If they want you to do something you had best jump to do it, but when roles are reversed they never come through. This is one of the most annoying aspects of the partner who is ready to move on.
2. They are only nice when they want something.
They are only nice to you when they want you to do something for them. Any other time they are a complete asshat. Nothing you ever say or do is good enough.
3. They do not prioritize you.
They put themselves and their friends in front of you and your needs. If you want to go do something they will not bother to make the time, but if a friend wants to do something they jump at the idea. This hurts so badly.
4. They stop trying to explain things to you.
When something bad happens within the relationship they don’t even bother trying to explain. This is because they do not care; they are not concerned with whether or not you are upset.
They will not waste their time trying to talk your problems through. Everything is about them and nothing is about you. If you don’t like how things are they tell you where the door is and encourage you to leave.
6. They only want to talk about things they want to talk about.
They refuse to talk to you about anything you want to talk about. They will tell you their day in full detail, but when it comes to yours, you are being annoying. Nothing you say matters.
Even the things you have absolutely no control over are somehow your fault. This makes no sense but to your partner, it is the explanation for everything. They got in trouble for doing something stupid and you were nowhere around yet it is still YOUR fault, right?
8. They do not include you often.
They will go do things with friends and spend all the time they can out but you can’t. They will be out having fun all the while you are at home bored. This is how you know things are dying.
9. They clearly don’t care about you.
They don’t pretend to care anymore. They are not concerned with you in the slightest. You do not matter to them.
10. They say lots of hurtful things to you.
They say and do things just to bring you down. If you ask whether or not you look alright they will tell you that you look bad regardless of how you look. All they want is to make you feel bad.
11. You walk on eggshells around them.
You don’t know what to say or do around them anymore. You honestly are more comfortable when they are not home. Nothing makes sense anymore.
12. They only say nice things to get you off of their back.
The only time they are nice to you is if they want something or if they want you to chill out and leave them alone. For instance, if you are bugging them about something they did they might kiss on you and make you feel better from time to time but only so you will shut up. It is all pretend.
13. They make bullshit excuses as to why they can’t do something.
They will make the dumbest excuses as to why they can’t do things with you. Things like hating your family so they aren’t going to Thanksgiving or being busy so to keep from going out when all they’re doing is playing video games. This is something that makes us all feel like shit.
14. They ignore you when you are upset.
When you are at your breaking point and crying they don’t comfort you. They let you cry and ignore you. They are no shoulder to lean on.
If your partner is ready to move on, let him or her do just that. You deserve so much better. Someone amazing will find you someday.