The search for true love is a confusing one. Even when you think you found that ‘perfect person’, all may not be as it seems… There is nothing worse than feeling completely blindsided when your love life comes crashing down!
While I would love to tell you that I had the secret to identifying these situations before they even begin, there is no guaranteed way to avoid heartbreak with the exception of avoiding relationships altogether, and that’s really going to put a damper on your love life! What I can do is give you the information necessary to recognize that the end is coming, giving you time to collect your thoughts and move forward with your life.
Watch for these 10 subtle signs that he’s starting to lose interest in your relationship:
#1 – Conversations Die Off
You may have once engaged in long meaningful conversations, but those days appear to be behind you. Instead, you’re lucky if you can get a one-word answer. If he’s no longer interested in trying to connect, then the relationship is already headed downhill.
#2 – Changes in Your Sex Life
Sex is often a dead giveaway as to how a relationship is currently faring. If you notice that he is no longer interested in sex, this can indicate that he’s no longer attracted to you in that way. On the other hand, if he’s interested in only sex then this is a sign that any other connection is now gone.
#3 – Negative Energy
If you are spending time with someone that you truly care about and want to build a life together, you will often feel as though you are on a high. If, however, you notice that this happiness is starting to drop from his eyes, leaving him feeling ‘down’, this could indicate that a negative energy is starting to settle in.
#4 – Less Thoughtful
A man that is head over heels in love with his partner will go to great lengths just to see a smile on her face. This may lead him to run errands or surprise you with little, meaningful gifts. As he starts to lose interest in the relationship, these thoughtful gestures will slowly cease to happen.
#5 – Loss of Interest
When you are first getting into a relationship with someone, your time together is full of questions as you try to genuinely get to know one another. This interest in one another is directly proportionate to your interest in the relationship. If you notice that he’s no longer interested in your life, then your relationship is likely on its way out.
#6 – Excuses
No longer interested in continuing the relationship, the concept of compromise is going to be taken off the table. For this reason, he’s going to use any excuse he can to get out of doing the things he doesn’t want to do.
#7 – More Time Away
If he’s starting to reconsider the relationship, then he might feel as though he needs some space. One way that he will start to create this space is by making plans to hang out with his friends more. If you notice that he’s so busy with his buddies that he no longer has time for you, take note.
#8 – Arguments Left Unresolved
No longer caring to compromise and keep the relationship going, he may see an argument as an opportunity out of this once and for all. Rather than trying to resolve things, he will either walk away leaving you to stew on things or further stir the pot.
#9 – Refusing to Apologize
When a man cares for you and is willing to work at his relationship, he will take responsibility for his mistakes. Interested in keeping you happy, he will genuinely apologize. If, however, he no longer believes there is a relationship to maintain then there is nothing to be gained from admitting his errors.
#10 – No Future
This is one of the biggest giveaways that your relationship is over. If he is no longer making plans for your future together, then this is a good sign that he doesn’t see a future together. It may be time to move on.