She isn’t going to let you play with her head or her heart forever. She is not a toy and you cannot do whatever you want with her, so it is time for your wake up call.
If you take her out and you make her think you want a relationship when you don’t you’re making a big mistake. If you take her out and you want a relationship but don’t make it known, you’re already letting her slip away. You can’t make her think things are going one way only for your intentions to be the opposite, this is not how you build together.
If you message her all night and refuse to say hey in person you’re really losing her. She isn’t going to put up with this forever. If you are constantly making yourself inconsistent she is going to notice. Just because she is a woman doesn’t mean she is stupid, she can see what you are doing. She wishes you wouldn’t do it and is giving you every chance to make things right.
While this is a bit naive on her part she is doing it because she is doing all she can to hold on. You are losing her more and more each time you tell her you love her but refuse to show it. You are forcing her to dive right off of that cliff into shark-infested waters because you aren’t willing to give her what she deserves. You will lose her long before she actually leaves and it will be obvious to everyone but you. She will stop wasting her time and she will stop listening to those empty words you share.
She will be willing to give all of those sharks a chance in the hopes of finding one that won’t tear her apart in the ways that you have. She would have really given you the world, she spent so much time on you. If you are giving her false hope and constantly sending mixed signals you need to grow up, she deserves better than this. What is the point in wasting her time and hurting her feelings for nothing? Life is short, her eyes will be open one day.
She might be bracing herself right now for the fall, she might be getting ready to move forward without you and if you don’t get your shit together she is going to slip right through your fingertips. You will lose the beautiful human being that you have been taking advantage of and you will regret it. Stop being a loser and get your shit together. She will grow stronger and you will grow weaker.
If you are the girl wondering if you should be sitting around dealing with these mixed signals the video below is for you. Sometimes we love the wrong person and moving on is the best thing we can do. Don’t be someone’s maybe, be someone’s happy ending.