There’s no arguing that it can be difficult to wait for love. Television ads, movies, even music on the radio reminds you of all the joy that true love can bring, with happy couples enjoying their lives together.
We hear about the incredible connection, the benefits of having your own personal cheerleader and the true understanding that can only come from a deep, romantic relationship. However, trying to force this to happen faster than it is meant to be can only lead to heartache.
Each of us is inherently different, without our own strengths and weakness, quirks and anxieties. It is for this reason that we will connect with some people, but not with others. Some connections will naturally be stronger, while others will struggle until we finally decide that they aren’t worth the effort.
Don’t force yourself to settle for someone that will love you in spite of your quirks, wait for someone who will love you, all of you, including your quirks.
Don’t force yourself to settle with someone that will make you happy some of the time, wait for someone that can bring true happiness into every moment of your lives together.
Don’t force yourself to settle with someone that will fight with you over things that you deem to be important in life, wait for someone that will fight with you for these important things in life.
Don’t force yourself to settle with someone that will change you into the perfect spouse, wait for someone that believes you are perfect just the way you are and is willing to grow with you through life’s experiences.
Don’t force yourself to settle with someone that allows you to feel comfortable at all times in life, wait for someone who isn’t afraid to step out of your comfort zone with you, helping you to grow.
Don’t force yourself to settle with someone that listens to the words that you speak when you are having a conversation, wait for someone that will listen to the meaning behind those words, the true message that is coming from your heart.
Don’t force yourself to settle for someone that can overlook your moments of anxiety or depression, wait for someone who is willing to reach out a hand to pull you out of the darkness, ensuring that you are never alone.
Don’t force yourself settle for someone that will notice you when you go out of your way to impress them, wait for someone that will notice you and only you even in a crowded room.
Don’t force yourself to settle for someone that you feel could fit into your life, wait for someone that you can’t imagine your life without.
Real love and romance are worth waiting for, even if that means embracing your single life for a little longer. Take this time to focus on yourself, building your self-esteem and confidence and evolving into the best version of yourself that you can be. Take time to enjoy the little moments in life, and truly appreciate the time that you have. There is no need to rush yourself into something that’s okay when you can wait a little longer and find something that is absolutely remarkable. Don’t you deserve true happiness in life?