Sometimes as strong women, there are people who come into our lives only to exit just as fast. These people couldn’t handle us and there are reasons for this, these reasons have nothing to do with what we are doing wrong but everything to do with what we ARE doing RIGHT.
If you are a strong woman, you know that there are people who have their shit together and stick around and that there are people who are lost and still looking for ‘fun’ who aren’t capable of settling down. You are someone who does not deal with bullshit and doesn’t mind being alone. People often find you to be intimidating and that is their problem, not yours.
Below you will find a list of empowering reasons why some ‘boys’ can’t seem to ‘handle’ you. That being said, you don’t need a boy or a man, all you need is yourself and if you decide you want someone to be with along the way, you will find the person who makes you feel valued and loved. We don’t have to be in a relationship to be happy, happiness comes from within.
12 Amazing Things About Strong Women ‘Boys’ Just Cannot Handle:
1. You respect yourself.
Respect is important. If you do not respect yourself how do you expect other people to? You know what you deserve and how you want to be treated, no one is allowed to make you feel ‘less than.’
2. You do not let people lie to you.
You are able to tell when people are lying and you will not put up with it. You do not let people run all over you. If someone is lying you CALL THEM OUT.
3. You aren’t afraid to let people in.
You let people in but know how to be as guarded as you need to be. You are not naive in the least bit. You know what you are doing.
4. You are emotionally intelligent.
You are aware of your emotions and how they affect you. You will not let someone make you feel ‘some type of way.’ You only give power to the positive.
5. Your intuition is on point.
Your intuition tells you so much more than most people’s does. Yours really lets you know when something is about to go down. You always listen to it.
You will not let anyone disrespect you. You deserve respect and that is what you will get. You will not give respect without getting it in return.
7. You know your worth.
No one is allowed to walk all over you. You know your worth and are not about to let anyone make you second guess it. This is a quality everyone should have.
8. You are a bit intense.
You can be a bit intense but in a good way. There are things about you most people struggle to understand. You are mysterious and full of life.
9. You create your own opportunities.
You are someone who chases your dreams and goes for your goals. You will not let the rest of the world slow you down. You are your own person.
No one is able to change you. You are unapologetically YOU. While some people may want to bend you until you break, that is not going to happen.
11. You are not a fool and will not deal with bullies.
You will not let anyone treat you badly. You are a strong independent person who knows her boundaries. If someone is bullying you, you put them in their place quickly. You can be petty when you need to.
You are able to forgive yourself for your own mistakes. You are human and you know that you are not perfect. No one is perfect. We all fuck up sometimes.