When it comes to marriage, we want a lot of different things in our partners. We want someone we can build a life with, someone worth growing with, and someone that makes us feel content in this world.
If you are trying to figure out whether the person you are with is worth marrying you should see if the following things are ‘different’ in this relationship than in your previous ones. When it comes to lasting relationships, you have to be able to do the following things with one another.
11 Things That Will Be Different When You Are Finally Dating The One Worth Marrying:
You are able to communicate well. You both listen to each other when there is a problem. Everything gets resolved with ease.
2. You are patient with each other.
You do not have to worry about getting upset over small things. You are patient and so is your partner. Everything works out in its own time.
3. You have things in common.
You both have similar interests. You can find things to talk about with each other. There is never a dull moment.
4. Everyone is pleased with the relationship.
You are both satisfied. No one is feeling left out or neglected. Things are as they should be sexually and romantically.
5. Everything is equal.
You are both sharing the burdens you face. If one is going through something so is the other. No one has to go through anything alone.
6. It feels right.
The relationship feels right. Moving forward feels right. Everything is falling into place.
7. You are both financially stable.
No one is struggling financially. If you jump the gun and get married when no one is as stable as they should be complications will arise. Ensuring everything is taken care of beforehand will make a huge difference.
8. You both see a future together.
You see a future with this person and they also see a future with you. You are able to grow together and can get things done. Life just wouldn’t be the same if you were apart.
Neither one of you lets drama consume your time. You are both grown and know where you are going in life. Drama is unnecessary and causes all kinds of problems.
10. You love each other and know it.
You feel a deep sense of love for this person and you know they feel the same about you. Love is not something we come by often in life. You will know how genuine it is when you feel it.
You can trust one another and are not afraid to speak the truth. Being honest is crucial in a real relationship and being open will help things last. Lasting relationships are not built on lies.
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