The world of dating and relationships can be a messy, challenging and frustrating experience, as you experience intense emotions, connections, and broken hearts along the way. So why do we continue to put ourselves through it all?
With two-thirds of Americans believing in the idea of soulmates and that partner you are destined to find, we hold onto the hope that the next relationship will be ‘the one.’
I have both good news and bad news for you. Let’s start with the bad – There is no way to avoid the pain and heartbreak that you will encounter along the way. Anytime that you open your heart up, you are putting yourself in a vulnerable position where you could be hurt. Despite the pain, you need to keep taking this step if you are going to find the partner of your dreams. The old saying goes that you are going to have to kiss a lot of toads before you find your Prince Charming.
So, what’s the good news? There are signs in your own life that your soulmate is just around the corner. Sure, these aren’t neon signs flashing in front of your face, making it glaringly obvious. As your soulmate’s energy begins to find it’s way into your life, however, it will begin to trigger subtle changes and shifts in thinking.
Pay attention to these 10 signs that you will be meeting your soulmate in the near future:
#1 – Clarity Regarding Your Purpose in Life
There is a true happiness and joy that can only be found in discovering your destined path in life, finding the one thing that you are truly passionate about and pursuing it. If you suddenly feel like the pieces of the puzzle are falling into place revealing your life path, then you may be experiencing the positive influence of your future soulmate on your life.
#2 – Improved Energy
When your soulmate is getting near you may suddenly notice an improvement in your energy levels. This may manifest as improved happiness, feeling antsy, an inability to sit still or an increase of positivity in your life. This is your spiritual self responding to the proximity of your soulmate, excited for what is yet to come.
#3 – Noticing Love All Around You
This is a matter of perspective. Love exists all around us, but when we close our hearts and minds off we overlook it. When your soulmate is near you will find yourself opening up to its existence. You begin to focus on the positive, noticing the people walking down the street hand in hand, love songs playing on the radio, and first dates at your favorite coffee shop.
#4 – Romantic Dreams
These aren’t just vague dreams or recollections of dates gone past. If you go to bed and find yourself enjoying vivid, lifelike dreams that cause your heart to race and your palms to sweat, then pay attention. Your dreams often contain messages from the Universe, and this one is pretty clear. You’re going to meet that ‘special someone’, and soon.
#5 – Balance and Harmony in Your Life
Regardless of what may have been happening in your life up to this point, you begin to notice a calm and harmony settling in. Drama subsides and in its place, you find that you are experiencing balance in all areas of your life including your career, emotions, home life, and relationships. This is the positive influence of your soulmate’s energy.
#6 – Truly ‘Know’ Who You’re Looking For
I’m not talking about whether your ‘perfect match’ is a blonde or brunette, or if they are at least a foot taller than you are. You suddenly find yourself recognizing the personality traits and intimate details that create a clear image of who you’re looking for. Pay attention to this sudden clarity, as it will help you to identify your soulmate when they do enter your life.
#7 – Improved Self-Confidence
Not only are you more aware of the love in others around you, with feelings of romance on the horizon, but you also discover a renewed confidence in yourself. You begin to love yourself for who you are, including your flaws and quirks. These signs of confidence and self-love are noticeable to those around you, as your radiate light and happiness everywhere you go.
#8 – Desire to Improve Yourself
One of the greatest gifts that our soulmates bring into our world is the inspiration and motivation to do what it takes to become the best version of ourselves. While we often acknowledge this impact after the relationship has started, we may actually start feeling this influence before we know whose energy we’re experiencing. If you find yourself suddenly feeling the urge to start working on self-improvement, then there is a positive energy about to enter your life.
#9 – Learning from Previous Relationships
Every relationship in our lives serves a purpose of some form, from the short-lived flings through to the lasting connections that we establish. Those relationships that aren’t meant to last still serve a purpose, teaching us important lessons for the future. While you may have been blind to these lessons in the past, you find that your eyes are now opening to the truth. Allow yourself to learn from these experiences as they will improve your relationships moving forward.
#10 – Open to New Opportunities
This doesn’t just refer to seek out major adventures and excitement in your life, you are simply open to new opportunities, experiences, and people. It may be as big as trying a new hobby or career option, or as simple as saying hello to the person in line with you at the coffee shop. Rather than clinging to your comfort zone, you are willing to step out occasionally into the unknown.